Natalie Howley

Emotional Intelligence for Developers

Emotional Intelligence for Developers

A practical, developer-focused course to help you understand your emotions, handle challenges calmly, and build stronger relationships at work.

A Quick Intro

Hi, I’m Natalie, a Senior Consultant at Thoughtworks and an Emotional Intelligence Coach for developers.

Over the years, I’ve seen how technical skills can take you far, but it’s emotional intelligence that shapes how we lead, collaborate, and thrive in teams.

I created this course to help developers like you navigate tricky conversations, stay calm under pressure, and build the kind of work relationships that actually feel good — not forced.

Whether you’re leading a team or just want to feel more in control of your own reactions, this course will give you practical tools to bring more clarity, connection, and calm into your work life.

What You'll Learn

SELF-AWARENESS 

  • Identify your emotions in real-time
  • Understand your internal triggers
  • Recognise how your mood affects your work
  • Build a clear emotional vocabulary

SELF-REGULATION

  • Stay calm under pressure or conflict
  • Manage difficult emotions without suppressing them
  • Respond, don’t react — even when you’re stressed
  • Use practical tools to reset and refocus

SOCIAL AWARENESS

  • Read the emotional tone of your team

  • Tune into what others need (even if they don’t say it)

  • Understand emotional cues in messages and meetings

  • Practice real empathy, not just niceness

RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT

  • Communicate clearly and calmly under pressure

  • Give and receive feedback without tension

  • Build psychological safety through small actions

  • Create more trust, influence, and connection