Emotional Intelligence for Developers
A practical, developer-focused course to help you understand your emotions, handle challenges calmly, and build stronger relationships at work.

A Quick Intro
Hi, I’m Natalie, a Senior Consultant at Thoughtworks and an Emotional Intelligence Coach for developers.
Over the years, I’ve seen how technical skills can take you far, but it’s emotional intelligence that shapes how we lead, collaborate, and thrive in teams.
I created this course to help developers like you navigate tricky conversations, stay calm under pressure, and build the kind of work relationships that actually feel good — not forced.
Whether you’re leading a team or just want to feel more in control of your own reactions, this course will give you practical tools to bring more clarity, connection, and calm into your work life.
What You'll Learn
SELF-AWARENESS
- Identify your emotions in real-time
- Understand your internal triggers
- Recognise how your mood affects your work
- Build a clear emotional vocabulary
SELF-REGULATION
- Stay calm under pressure or conflict
- Manage difficult emotions without suppressing them
- Respond, don’t react — even when you’re stressed
- Use practical tools to reset and refocus
SOCIAL AWARENESS
Read the emotional tone of your team
Tune into what others need (even if they don’t say it)
Understand emotional cues in messages and meetings
Practice real empathy, not just niceness
RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT
Communicate clearly and calmly under pressure
Give and receive feedback without tension
Build psychological safety through small actions
Create more trust, influence, and connection